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The Map You Were Handed

The Hidden Influences Behind Career Choice

How parents, peers, social class, genes and chance shape the path you take, and how to read your own map.

Drawing on ninety research sources in vocational psychology, sociology and behavioral genetics, this book traces the five forces that quietly shape what we end up doing for a living. Each chapter closes with questions to reflect on, and the final chapters turn from influence to action.

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The Map You Were Handed — The Hidden Influences Behind Career Choice, by Driss El-Mouden

Who really chose your career?

Most people answer that question with a shrug or a story, rarely with evidence. The choice of a path is often made in silence, left to school results, family pressure, unexamined prestige or simple drift. Yet it shapes almost everything that follows.

The five forces on the map

  1. 01 / 05

    Parents

    What the people who raised you hoped for, showed and said about work, often without saying it out loud.

  2. 02 / 05

    Peers

    The comparison reflex, and friends as models, messengers and support.

  3. 03 / 05

    Social class

    Unequal access to information, to elite professions, and to what "success" even means.

  4. 04 / 05

    Genes

    What heritability does and does not say, and how temperament and environment work together.

  5. 05 / 05

    Chance

    Planned happenstance, the economy around you, and the turning points no one schedules.

Inside the book

  1. 01

    Part I

    Parents

  2. 02

    Part II

    Peers

  3. 03

    Part III

    Social Class

  4. 04

    Part IV

    Genetics

  5. 05

    Part V

    Chance and Environment

  6. 06

    Part VI

    From Influence to Action

Includes a "Reading Your Own Map" worksheet, further reading and a full reference list.

For the student at the crossroads, the parent who wants to guide without imposing, and anyone reconsidering the path they are on.

Driss El-Mouden

About the Author

Driss El-Mouden is the founder of Career Decision Map. His own path, from literature to teaching, administration and management, is the starting point of this book. Learn more on his About page.

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Once you can read your map, learn how to decide where to go next.

Read the map before it reads you.

Understand the forces behind your path, and take back the decisions still ahead of you.

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